I have slowly over the years realized that I am people-pleaser
with an eating disorder. Reminds me just how much I've tried to please others
or feel sorry for them in the past. Countless times I put the needs of others
before my own and sadly, the more giving I do; the less I seem to get in
return. Many times I feel the happiness of others is more important than my own
and that the happiness of others creates mine.
I
need to stop doing this: compassion is one thing but feeling as though you
others a huge debt or need to solve their problems on the spot is a bad way to
think. I got this from my family growing up: parents were not mature
emotionally and I felt I needed to fix them all the time or come to their aid
when they hit rough spots.
I
need to take much greater care of myself, move on, stop trying to please
others. Try to just be a good friend.
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