Done with Women

I've recently come to the realization that I'm quite prepared to go the rest of my life without being in a relationship. I actually don't think it's that bad a fate. There are worse things than never feeling attractive or being in love.

I have found that assuming all women are indifferent towards me to be quite liberating. I no longer care about how attractive I am, and I never have to think about whether or not this or that girl is interested in me. In fact, it’s even helped me avoid a great deal of embarrassing situations. It simplifies everything and reduces it all to one conclusion: no one likes me.

I would not recommend this philosophy to anyone. The only reason I can get away with it is because I don’t need to be in a relationship, nor do I feel compelled to be attractive to women anymore. I have simply stopped caring and I am a lost cause. While I still have friends, this strategy is a sure fire way to isolate yourself and become lonely. It’s also extremely defeatist and can be dangerous when a girl is genuinely interested in you. 

Nonetheless, it has helped me in the sense that I am no longer depressed about my ‘love-life’, nor am I agonizing over how I come off to women. Basically, I have found some degree of solace, however small it may be.